What Do You Love About Him?

[Linzomama]

Lets hear what everyone loves about thier man? What does your husband do that you admire/adore, or what about him do you find most attractive? What drew you to him in the first place?
Single gals: what do you love most about the men in your lives?
Let's focus on the good in our guys.

[Linzomama]

Okay, hehe, I'll go first!
I love that my husby is a hard worker! He outshines everyone else at his office. He does hard labor on the weekends. He is extremely talented and smart. He cares about others -always concerned for someone! He is so cute when he plays with the babies, and when he talks lovingly to me he has the sweetest voice.

[Kyleigh]

My husband is very patient and kind. He is one of those types of people that everyone likes--especially me! :) He'll do anything I ask and though it may not be the way I would do it, he does his best and I do appreciate that. He's a good husband to me and a good father to our children.

[tanner413]

I love that my husband will fight for me (not physically, though he would). He makes sure when I am not standing up for myself, that he is. I feel so very safe with him. He is a wonderful father to our daughter, and that makes him even more attractive.

[spasmo]

I love that my husband finds unexpected ways to show me how much he loves me. For example last week we had been watching something on TV where this couple was on their first date and the woman proceeds to rattle off her goals and how she would achieve them. Then she went on to list her four assets, four greatest fears, and four things she hates about herself. My husband looked at me and said that we sould do be able to do the same things about ourselves and be able to guess how each other would respond to the questions. He gave us a deadline. My husband does not usually do things this "touchy feely". We both did our list, and I almost cried when he said that "me being his wife" was one of his greatest assets and that "not showing and telling his wife enough that he loved her" was one of the things that he hates most about himself! What a sweetie. This was not a complaint of mine... I have always felt loved by him, but for him to think of this just makes me melt even more.

[penguin2005]

I love that my dh is not what you see on the outside. Outside he is tough and stubborn. Inside he is caring, loving , gentle. He always fights for what he thinks is right. He is an excellent daddy to our girls. When it is just us he is so sweet. Tells me that he still loves me. I wish that he would be more like he was before we had our girls, but I know that when they get older that will come back. Can't do all that sweet stuff with the girls always looking.
I can't ask for a better hubby/daddy. He is so cute too. The clear blue eyes is what got me in the first place. Not to mention I love a man that can fix my truck and cook me supper!

[Linzomama]

Awww, we've got some sweetheart husbands!
Spasmo, your sweetie sounds like he has a hidden romantic side. ;)
And, oooh I love my husband's blue eyes, penguin!

[juliesworld]

My husband is very affectionate, so I am lucky. But the best was when he surprised me at our wedding reception. He sang, Josh Groban's "When you say you love me" in front of all of our friends and family. If you haven't heard the song, you should google it. It is a GREAT song - one of my all time favorites. He hadn't sang in front of a crowd in 11 years (since he scarred his vocal chords) so he would drop me off at work every morning and during the time it took for him to drive from my office to his, he would practice singing. He did this for several months before the wedding and I didn't have a clue!

Julie :)

[royallady]

My boyfriend is the light of my life, He treats me with respect and I do the same with him, He makes me smile everytime I see him. And the laughter is always there.

I have been married and he gives me what I did not have HE LISTENS all the time. And I love him for that :)

[penguin2005]

when we first started dating he would sing to me You are my sunshine. After we got married he still would do it. Only when I was upset at something. Lately he hasn't done that. But everytime even ten years and two kids later I still cry. It is just so sweet how he is off key. But I love him that much. He also used to get up early with the girls when they were babies. He would lie them on his big belly and let them lay there asleep. I wish I had pictures of it. But I was usually sleeping after being up all night with them.

[bumblebeequeen]

His voice was what I liked the first, I talked to him on the phone before we ever met. His hands were next, so strong and the creators of such beautiful art. He is an incredibly talented woodworking artist, he writes knee quaking love notes from the shop, cooks fantastic meals and isn't afraid of laundry.
He treats me like a queen and believes the best of me always.
Breakfast in bed is a regular treat....
I love that my DH is honest, strong but gentle, not afraid to show his tender feelings, trusting and trustworthy.
The fact that he's tall, slim, handsome and has green eyes you could get lost in for days doesn't hurt either.
I'm a lucky woman!

[kelly15972]

I love that my husband is responsible, goal acheiving, caring, and a hard worker. But my secret reason I love him so much is that he has a sensitive side that comes out unexpectedly. Like saying the blessing, and praying for the safety of our service men and women, watching a tear jerker, or seeing one of his girls cry. All of these can bring a tear to his eye too!

[lilorphann]

My hubby is a great man. He works hard to make sure I have whatever I need, (and want). My children never do without. He is constantly surprising me with little things and is supportive of whatever new thing I decide to take on. We can now read each other's minds and finish each other's sentences. It is spooky at times how great we have it. People always ask what I want in life. My answer is that I want for nothing because I have it all. I have my soul mate.

[Weiser]

Oh my, it would take a novel to tell all the reasons why I love my husband! He is kind, caring, affectionate, loves God, is hard working, provides for me and our boys, is trust worthy, faithful, considerate, happy, and rarely cross. He bends over backwards to let me know I am cherished. He spoils me rotten! Love ya, Dear! :love:

[Noelle]

He sang, Josh Groban's "When you say you love me" in front of all of our friends and family.

Yowee, that must have been an incredible feeling. I love that song. *heart smiles*

My boyfriend and I were best friends for about two years and just recently started dating. He really listens to everything I have to say and he knows me better than anyone else, except my mum, and he's always been there for me. Yesterday I had an intense dance practice under the stage lights and had already drained both my water bottles, and while I was busy cleaning some choreo he went and bought me another water bottle. It's little thoughtful stuff like that that he's always doing for me, and that most guys our age would never think of. He's an amazing person to be around and he brings out the best in everyone.

[SouthDakotaSherry]

My list could be long.

I love that he looks at me and doesn't see old or fat or wrinkled. He sees the inner me and loves me completely.

I love that he married me and took on helping me raise my three sons. This can be challenging.

I love that he was willing to move from California to South Dakota, giving up a good job, because my sons needed to be in the same place as both of their parents. His daughters are older and leading their own lives so he felt it was more important to be here.

I love that he has a great work ethic. He was promoted in his job in less than two years. I am proud of him.

I love the little things - he will see that my glass of water is empty while we are watching tv and will get up to get me more. Just like that. Who does that? (Not my first husband, that's for sure.)

I love that while he loves me and does things for me, he doesn't let me walk on him. He tells me what he thinks and does what he needs to do.

I love that while we have much in common, we are still two independent people, capable of doing our own things while supporting each other.

I love that he provides morale support in everything I do.

[Mysty]

I used to sing " you are my sunshine" to my daughter when she wouldn't sleep at night :) Reading that brought nice memories and a lump in my throat.

Anyway..on to My Hubby!!! He spoils me silly, respects me and has taken on full time fatherhood responsibilities with my daughter, and he gets along great with her father. He is a hard worker, a great song writer/singer, and my best friend. He cares about others, and luvs his Mom!! I am soooo lucky to have met him and I trust him with everything in me.

[Mori]

What I love most about my husband is that he isn't critical of me in any way, he accepts & loves me for who I am & he makes me feel special & beautiful. I am very comfortable in our relationship & we trust each other blindly.

[LoveRainbows]

My husband is my highschool sweetheart.Even though he's a little older and put on a few pds, he still rocks my world! He's got a big heart and I feel safe when I'm with him. He's a hard worker and takes good care of our family. I really love it when I'm being crabby and he does what ever he can to make me happy.

[sagespot]

I married my husband because he kept asking! (OK, that sounds bad, but I didn't mean it that way. :) ) Actually after I turned him down twice over a three year period, I realized something - that I couldnt imagine my life without him. So I said yes.

And I think it was the best decision I've ever made. My husband has stuck with me through some of the most tramatic first years of marriage - I was diagnosed with ovarian cancer and had to have a hysterectomy and a few other surgeries to begin initial recovery. Both of us are only 29 years old. We have no children of our own...

He loves me. He tells me so every night when I go to bed. He kisses me each night.

I got really really really lucky - I married my best friend. :)

Sage

[babsRN]

Do these men have brothers?

[clogaholic]

What I love a lot about my hubby is that he loves me a lot too :)
Seriously, he's a great person ( even if he does snore LOUD ). He's there when anyone needs a helping hand, he's smart, kind ( usually ), loves our 2 daughters more than life, a hard worker and my best friend. We've been married for almost 37 years now. I'm hoping for that many more :)

[allingoodtime]

My husband John is a very loving, caring man. We have been married for 13 years, and I think I care more about him now than I did when we married.

He always writes me a nice note in the morning, calls me at his break, and when he comes home he tells me how nice the house and yard looks. After I fix him dinner he gives me a kiss and tells me thank you.
All this and he is fighting Hep c. He is a great husband and I love him very much:)

[sphinx]

When I met my husband, what struck me was his sensitivity. He's very caring. He's also very intelligent! I still love these things about him. We also share the same strange sense of humor and have a lot in common. These days, since I was diagnosed with RA he has been my hero, helping me out sooooo much! He's very thoughtful and sweet.

[Pipkitty]

I love that my dh talks to me and listens to what I think about things. I also love that he cooks! What I don't love is the extra pounds I have put on. I love that we do things together but we also do things apart. We were older when we got married and we are both independant people.
Jeannie

[crunchies0313]

I think sometimes he knows me better than I know myself!! He pushes me to be who I want to be, because I never think I am strong enough to do something. I can never explain everything I love about him. I never feel as though I am missing something. He deals with my weird habits, and even has picked up a few. Hes wonderful!!

[jaycie]

what do I love about him?? All of it! I love his sense of humor. I love the way he laughs, and how he always is able to make me laugh. I love the way he holds my hand when we're riding in the car together or when we're walking together. He tells me "I love you" at least 10 times a day... it's probably more than that. I love how he strengthens me. I love how he makes me feel that I am the most beautiful woman in the world. I love that he has become my best friend.

[Queen Karen]

My husband is like Peck's bad boy, when he's good he's very good. when he's bad he's aweful. We met at work 26 years ago. He was smart, kind compassionate and not hard on the eyes either. He's still easy on the eyes smart and compassionate. He's learned to be funny and keeps the laughter going which has kept the marriage alive. I not only love him but I like him as well. He's one of my best friends. We have shared alot of good times and bad.

[ashanti1922]

he is patient, thoughtful, fun, laidback and is a great partner to me. Dependable and puts up with me!

[Tric]

What I love about my husband? Let see where should I start...he is a hardworker, a wonderful provider, without him I wouldn't have our sons...He is not a romantic man, but that is ok...I know how he feels about me... He is my ultimate hero who knows when I need protection & when I can protect myself. He always makes me feel safe! If he could help it I wouldn't have to work, but unfortunately that is not the case.

Tric

[Lavendergrey]

My husband is warm, loving, unselfish, and giving. He also loves God with all his heart, and because I do,too, it has made our marriage even stronger. He takes such good care of me when I have a migraine or I am sick...I just always know he is there for me. He is a fabulous provider for our family and an accepting man towards everyone...very forgiving and also he is flexible and lets me be me! I am so very blessed to have him as my husband and my best friend. He treats me like I am his queen :queen: !!

[Beachgirl]

Lets hear what everyone loves about thier man? What does your husband do that you admire/adore, or what about him do you find most attractive? What drew you to him in the first place?
Single gals: what do you love most about the men in your lives?
Let's focus on the good in our guys.

My husband is a kind and loving soul who thinks I'm the most incredible, smart, and loving women he's ever met. Oh, did I mention he's smart too (hee hee):D

What I found attractive, besides his dark good looks was that he made me laugh, didn't care what people thought about what he said or did, and could be serene while his life was in chaos.

It took me until I was 41 to meet the man I would grow old with, and it was well worth the wait. Our love:love: and respect for each other just deepens and grows, 6 years later and no sign of ever letting up.

I know that I can trust him absolutely to communicate, to never hurt me on purpose, I gave him my heart :smooch: and he treats it with love.

Our marriage is definitely non traditional-
He is a SAHH, and works on weekends, but mostly his health requires more down time. I support us and he takes care of many of the household chores and our kitty family.

:love: I am truly a blessed woman.

[Brennys Gramma]

Right now I love just about everything about my husband who I've been apart from for over 2 months due to a work committment in the Philippines.

Seriously, I love that though he's a big guy (6'2, 240 lbs.), he is the most sensitive man I've ever know. He cries at movies or when he's telling me something meaningful. I also love that a good relationship is important to him and that he's willing to make that a top priority in our life.

Pamela (aka Dan's forever wife)

[benswife]

i love my husband the way i do,because he treats me like a queen!!this man,came into our lives,took on a already made family with 7!!!children,and treat everyone of them like they are his own....my children absolutly adore him,and thinks"he rocks"..he is the most kindess,gentlless man ive ever known...ive never been treated like this in my life...he is my whole world...

[homeschooling_momma]

simply...everything......

When we first met in 2000, Travis & I had no idea where our lives would lead us...and for that fact what falling in love would mean......

We first got together just to ..ahem..

and then what started out as liking soon developed into love.

He loves my children as though they are his own. Just seeing him play with them, and seeing how he provides for all of us...wow.....he is just the most honorable man.

I love him so much!

[allietwo]

My husband is exceptionally loyal and committed. He also just does things out of the blue just to surprise me. He is gentle and considerate--not to mention he has the most dreamy eyes!